How to Survive a Milestone Birthday - when they don't want to reach it!

Reaching a milestone can be tough – tough on the milestone-ee, but sometimes even tougher on the nearest and dearest! When they’re not looking forward to entering a new decade – and there’s obviously nothing you can do to stop the inevitable happening – don’t panic! We’ve compiled a list of hints and tips to try and soften the blow.

Contrary to popular mythology, reaching a milestone can be something both women and men dread. So, if they’re about to turn 30, 40, 50, 60 or even 70, you might notice some of the following signs, which indicate they’re more likely to cry than smile when they open their special birthday presents!

1. Total paranoia and terror that someone might be planning a surprise party.
2. Failure to want to make any concrete birthday plans – a lot of skirting round the issue, hmming and ‘we’ll see’s.
3. Not wanting to mention to younger colleagues or friends that this year is a special one.
4. Becoming overly concerned that they’re showing disturbing signs of similarity, both physically and in personality traits, with their parent/s.
5. Sudden crash dieting.
6. Wardrobe overhaul, and a surprising interest in what’s in fashion. Probably coupled with an unfounded decision that what they wore 10-20 years ago is what suited them best, and therefore should be regurgitated!
7. Eyeing up passers-by 10-20 years younger than themselves, without the required discretion they’ve traditionally employed.
8. Deciding on a total change of career or lifestyle. And yes, those who have the sudden urge to own a convertible red sports car do fall into this category!

We’re sure there are many more individual traits that many of you could tell us about, but we’ve gone for those that tend to be pretty widespread! And yes, we know, it’s all very good to talk about what nightmarish behaviour your loved one is displaying – but, hey, let’s cut to the chase – what should you do about it?!

To read the full article, click here Milestone Birthday Presents Article, or take a look at Cocoon Collection's great birthday presents and milestone birthday gifts.